Gotcha !

Well I had a very simlar experience I took the baby out for a walk got to the end of the road changed my mind and came home the catch hubby playing on the internet, my first reaction was to laugh which really didnt go down too well as he was alread mortified that he had been caught by someone.

I then hit the roof cos how dare he keep secrets ! I was livid at him for doing so, not the act of watching porn but for not telling me, I had to badger him for a fair bit before he would talk about it as he was just so embarrased, but in the end he came round to my way of thinking and promised me that in future if I ask if he has been on the net then he would tell me the truth.

Men are different to woman I find in that they are more visual (not all just most in my experience) its not an 'affair' its a pleasure and an 'easy' release without the pressure of pleasureing someone else.

It really depends on the woman and the man involved if it bothers you then yes you have to deal with it if not then come to an agreement !

Good luck with whatever you decide ......