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Originally Posted by searchingmysoul
I love T self disclosure! Disclosure in the right way helps me to feel like I am not alone.
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one day T told me that I was "sensitive" and I received that as a criticism - whiny, complaining, is what I heard, and I made a face - she picked up on my expression and she told me, "sensitivity is not a fault and it's not a weakness - I am sensitive myself."
I looked at her and realized she was right - sensitive and caring and balanced and courageous - and I was speechless. This was a kind of self-disclosure that had a whole new effect, so different from "self disclosure" like when she tells me whe went to spend a week with her grandsons...