I think we are all fighters and flighters in diff situations - when I was attacked I got eveyone else out while it was safe then ran when the guy came for me - brave - stupid- coward - some or all depending on the situation - talk to your T - tell him how he made you feel - maybe he was jsut trying to get a reaction - but it didnt work - mit only shut you down and thats not good - maybe if your talk isnt good - you could try to find another T....