So Im really not sure where to start.. First problem is my mother, she is not mindful of what she says to people and easily offends. She thinks nobody likes her and everyone in the world has done her wrong. She is such the victim. Ive tried talking to her giving her positive afirmations kudos and the best advice I can possibly give. And of course the constant reminder that she is LOVED. I want to talk to her honestly and frankly but she tends to hear what she wants and twist it into something ugly and hurtful. She is seeing a p doc and he is also acting as a therapist. He also tells her she has been treated like a door mat, and that she is ignorant (uneducated). That is all she heard him say Im sure he said more than that.. From what I understand he has not done a proper psych eval and she is soooo depressed and unstable. She has made mention of not wanting to be here anymore I dont know if she has a plan and Im worried. She disagrees with any positives given to her and see's only the negatives.. ugh... She cannot let go of anything that has happened in the past. I know acceptance is difficult and seeing any positives in that state of mind is also difficult as I myself have been there. Thanks in advance to any advice and suggestions you all may have to offer..