weren't you expecting more than a friendship from him? it has to be mutual, AG...one doesn't just decide that because they think they're in love, the other person in the friendship feels the same way. there's friendship love and then there's romantic love. friendship love consists of "loving" someone as a friend..with no mention of dating, marriage, kids, houses.....romantic love consists of dates, long talks about common goals, houses, marriage and kids....which did you have with this person? the internet person?