Dear SalukiGirl,
As long as you stay positive, in asking for what you want, you will be fine. Don't tell him, he is holding you to hard. Tell him, you like to be held gently. Don't tell him, he doesn't open his mouth enough while kissing. Tell him, you would like him to open his mouth more, while kissing. You don't want to be critical of him. Don't tell him, he is doing something wrong. Express to him, what you like, and how you like it. If he can't handle that, i.e., if he is not responsive to your wants and needs, than maybe, you want to consider moving on. Lastly, spread your requests out. Don't present him with a list, during a given encounter. Also, acknowledge his response, to your requests.
I wish you the best,
Larry
P.S. An SIU girl, taught me to kiss.
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