Hello Pistol, welcome to PC!

It sounds like you and your husband have both been through a lot. Only you know whether or not you made the right decision. You have to do what's best for you, it sounds like your marriage was very unhealthy. Your husband has an issue somewhere to continue to cheat an you, perhaps he doesn't even know what it is.

I'm a little confused, he said he had feelings for someone else AND he wants you to stay?