Most definitely, and a very good point. A reminder to myself to make sure my own papers are in order.

Simcha, thank you for your very logical and practical replies. It helps me to separate my own emotions from the reality of the situation.

I talked with Ed again last night, and the issue of the complaint came up. I told him that whatever his decision I would support him. I emphasized that his best bet would be to find another dr. first, so that he could get an objective professional involved.

I decided that it is not my job to decide what is true or not, but rather to just be a supportive friend. I think the way I can be most supportive is to help him find a really good doctor so that he has a professional helping him figure this all out. If he does decide to file a complaint, I will talk to whomever and share my concerns.

Many hugs to all of you for listening, responding, and helping me work through this!