Well, I recall a recent post of mine entitled what the f...... Some nice moderator cleaned it up for me and nothing was said. No shame, no humiliation. And you know what? Those forbidden words sometimes can convey the intensity of the feeling better then any other way I have learned. Okay, now a funny storie. My 20 year old son was not quite 3 when we were returning from the inlaws at Thanksgiving. I was quite pregnant and we hit a deer. We ended up at a motel near there and the next morning my father in law came up to take our damaged car with the blown out windows etc and give us his to get home with. The deer jumped and broke 3 windows. Anyway, at breakfast grampa asks my little boy what happened and he said: "that f"in deer". I about crawled under the table. Poor baby had been asleep and the glass was all over him. But I also almost peed my pants because it was too funny. I wonder where he heard that word? They are just words. I agree with Pat and hope to be non-judgemental in my responses.