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Originally Posted by Berries
I told him about the buying the SI tool in an email.
He emailed back outlining his policy on cutting. Saying in each bullet how if i did this he would terminate and if i did that he would terminate...
Then he said we would discuss it further on Monday and to be prudent over the weekend.
It just now, this minute, hit me--he said be prudent. not be safe.
It feels like he said--be smart or I'll abandon you.
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I'm not someone who SI's, but I followed this from the psychotherapy thread as it really struck a cord with us over there.
I think your T is authoritarian, and based on the email you posted and everything in the past, I don't like your T. I think you need to tell your "OCD T" this stuff.
He sounds more like he wants to be in control of you rather than help you.
Very sad to hear this. I'm sorry.
Tell the T you see for OCD, and get another therapist if possible.
