I think trust for me has become less vital...I use to find someone, spill the beans to them and then be hurt when they didn't dedicate the rest of their lifes to me and my issues...now as I have less need to tell everyone my life story, trust isn't such a biggy for me now...yes it is true there are some people who do not value themselves so they aren't going to value mine and those people now I let alone. If they say hi or something then I answer them, but I do not "expect" much from them, they are not vital to my "being". As I recover I am becoming the person I most want to "believe" in. If someone does hurt me now, yes I feel the pain, and the let down but am able to survive it much better and know that its more about the other person having let themselves down much more than they ever could me.