Kendra,

No, the fact that it was not you who hurt her will not take away the pain. If she can understand this though it may help in her being able to heal from it.

It also may help in her being supportive of you. It sounds like she is sticking with you and these people are incredibly rare.

DID is a source of confusion and hard times. This is understandable. It does get better as you can learn ways to cope with it. Always remember that it does get better. I know how depressing and over whelming it can be. But there are bright moments to it.

Stay safe and stay strong.

Take care.

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