I have this thought a lot. I have spent my whole life having things happen and just either accepting or dealing with them and the moving on without having the urge to talk or dwell about it. Now having experienced therapy... I want to talk about stuff with my T; sometime even feel compelled to. I've often wondered....was this a good want/need to develop? After I stop going will this urge go away or will I just transfer it to others people? Have I developed a craving for something that isn't likely to be met so easily by someone else? Part of me is hoping I will just adapt like I've always done when people come and go in my life. Then again another part of me is hoping that I will feel different this time. That my urge to make close connections just wont go away.