Thanks! You know, every time this happens I feel like someone punched me! I have a younger friend at work who started out trying real hard to get along with her ex because of the daughter, but he just keeps refusing to help with the child's medical bills, and she is also to the place where she just can't deal with him anymore than she has to. I know just how she feels. I was there, and I feel like I am going back each time my Mom does this to me. It has surely changed the relationship I have with her. I just stay away most of the time.