he actually has been pretty responsive to me cause sometimes instead of just flat out telling him Ill actually do what Im wanting him to do and he follows. And he has said to me "tell me what you want or if you want me to do something differently". But then I think of my ex and how he told me that i was only mediocre at giving head and that hurt my feelings so bad. Eventually he moved me up to "best head ever" status after a few months but when he told me that he had gotten better head before i couldn't stop thinking that he was wishing he was getting it from his ex when I was doing it. And that was the worst feeling in the world. So I don't want to say it in a way that makes him think of another guy doing it to me y'know? im afraid if I say "I like it when you do this..." he'll go crazy about it like I did. Only...im actually crazy so maybe not haha

even so....i think its totally wrong to tell ur current girlfriend that another girl has given you better head. thats just mean