(notme9)

This is quite a dilemma. From what you said, it feels to me that you sense there is more to explore within your relationship with T. You seem conflicted about engaging in an attached relationship. So, it seems like unfinished business.

On the other hand, a job is a job is a job. Only you know whether this particular offer is a once in a lifetime opportunity.

In the for what it's worth category, I don't think there is anything wrong with being attached to your therapist. In fact, I think the best work of therapy is accomplished through the attachment. But I agree, the work of therapy should help you enhance your life.

Good luck with your decision.