You won't like what I have to say....
I have learned from experience that it is best not to jump from the frying pan into the fire. Some alone time is definitely wise.
Also, this girl with whom you connected via the internet sounds like your wife multiplied....texting you while at a party that she's so drunk her male friends are offering to put her pj's on...
You don't need this right now. You need time to heal and gather yourself emotionally.
Patty