Thread: Deflecting
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Old Feb 16, 2009, 09:59 PM
Anonymous29412
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That's my post you're quoting

T will usually tell me a story if I ask him too. Like Mouse said, we still arrive at the right place eventually. T is SOOOOOOOOOOOOO patient. I couldn't be a T, I would be like "get on with it already!!" but he is absolutely trusting of my "inner wisdom" (he trusts that I HAVE "inner wisdom" which is amazing in itself) and he generally will let me set the pace and lead.

SOMETIMES he will force an issue a little - he did today - and, I kid you not, first I plugged my ears and then I got curious to hear what he was saying so I unplugged them a little and then when he was done I stuck my tongue out at him. I guess I've learned to be quite uncooperative when he's not following my lead

T's stories help me feel more safe. I need that, a lot. I think he gets that. And we always do end up talking about what I'm avoiding anyhow, eventually. Or so it seems...