I feel for you, and I realize the pain of it. So I don't mean to negate what your points are.

Your Headline: Why Do Men Watch Internet Porn?

Really annoys me actually. Men aren't the only culprits in this case. Many women do it as well. I know a few that have myself, and I Myself do as well. I know I always feel dirty after doing so, and is a problem I haven't discussed with my T and will most likely get to eventually. I was NEVER sexually abused.

Not all fantasies have to be played out, hence why they are fantasies. And I am just trying to tell you from my stand point what I may get from watching porn as a younger female. I would rather watch it with a bf. But it is something I try to hide. Because there is the whole stigma of, "I must be a slut if I like to watch Porn" and yet it is okay for men, because they are more visual. I am a VERY visual young women. To each their own. I like beer and cake too, does that make me a Fat Hick?? haha anyways tangent.

Lieing, obsessively monitoring someone else, sounds like a real problem. And yelling at someone (not saying you did) while one has been caught doing an act that is an embarrassment to ones self would only want to make a person want to hide it more. Or do it less with the actual person.

Hope everything works out for you. Take Care.