Ummm....not to be mean but no, not 1 point for her for coming out with what she had done. She did it. Woo-hoo that she told you. Sweety, take the time. Let the divorce be final, let yourself find yourself and spend some time without a female. It doesn't make for a good relationship going from one right to another relationship....especially when there are such similarities. I often have felt like I have "doormat" stamped on my forehead, so I know what you mean about wearing a sign to attract certain types of people.