((( HUGS ))) - I feel your pain and I understand it from the wife's pov (been there) - please know that his looking does not lessen the love he holds for you and that this problem (if it is a problem for him) is about him and has nothing to do with you not being enough... it has to with him trying to find something that leaves him feeling like man when he feels less than a man.

Feel free to PM me any time as I struggled with this same issue with my husband for ten long hurt breaking years..... but the good news is that we made it through the bad and we are loving each other again.