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Originally Posted by MissCharlotte
In the for what it's worth category, I don't think there is anything wrong with being attached to your therapist. In fact, I think the best work of therapy is accomplished through the attachment. But I agree, the work of therapy should help you enhance your life.
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Thanks, MissCharlotte.
As you noted, I do struggle with this. Shouldn't I be conflicted in these circumstances? It's not a real, reciprocal relationship. It would be endlessly disappointing to completely attach and expect it to be otherwise. I feel like it's more like a game, a practice round. In exchange for payment, we'll both play certain roles, so that my reactions can be examined as they happen. The relationship/attachment is not the end result, not worth a big investment of my energy; it's just part of the process. Framed in this more limited way, it's much less engaging and much easier to walk away from.