I see red flags going up all over the place! 1) I agree with those who have said she's similar to your ex. She's player, too.

2) You need time alone to sort our your feelings and to try and figure out why you were attracted to your ex-wife. Chances are, it's the same reason you attracted this girl.

3) Long distance relationships like this one never work out. You haven't even met her yet! What you are infatuated with is what she comes across as. That's not the real her, believe me!

4) She gets drunk to the point of being so sloppy that men want to help her undress? YIKES! You'll have this fight from now till dooms day. She isn't going to change.

5) She sounds quite immature to me.

Five red flags enough for you? I sure hope so!

Please take care of yourself FIRST. Good luck!

PS Don't worry about even calling her "friend" because she's not. She's out for herself.