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Oh, that was really thoughtless. Tell him, that remarks like this will not lead anywhere in directions of improvement. It would take away a good bit of motivation from me, if I were in your situation.
Concentrate on telling each other as precise as possible what you think might be better. It can be a happy try-and-error game. See it as fun, not as heavy duty. Act a little playfully - that might help a lot.
There is a sentence coming to my mind that seems to fit in here:
We don't make mistakes, we just have happy little accidents. Bob Ross
Remember that and enjoy each other!
I wish you both well,
bluenarciss
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It is the way it is. I can't change that. But there might be a way to change how I react.
(Meanwhile I found out, there are such ways.)
To cope or not to cope - that is the question.
Healing comes from within. As I see it, the trick is to find the lost way back to safe home. Wherever I am, whatever happens to me, my safe home is always with me.
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