..........I dont know what that is for you either. But it still hasnt failed to amaze me, how, when theres the same character structure, how paralel the experiences are, even the words we use to describe them, .

When I was in relationships with T. one that was going terribly wrong, I used the phrase: "Im sinking into the mire"

.,....... she tried for me, but couldnt understand.

(That's why I long to have other schizy people to work with)


'quicksand'....
'mire'..... ............what is this? ? coming from what? ........

? being pulled to something inside ourselves? ?into a relationship witht the other that could swallow up whats good ('quicksand') / or contaminate as well as swallow up ('mire')

if you're willing to continue..... would you like to share more?

r.