Thanks for responding back. I haven't heard from anyone in awhile about my post. Looks like you are the first. Since that last post I broke up with my man and I got back with him. We are together now and it doesn't seem like things are getting any better. I am going to get strong enough to leave him befire it is too late. Thanks for your advice and your help. It means alot. The weird thing is that right after I got back with him then I got replys to this post. It is like a sign or something. Don't you think? What would you do to get out of a bad relationship? I mean we have only been together for 5 months. We have been through a lot with each other in the last 5 months.