(((EM)))

you've done an amazing job of processing all of that yourself (last night? this morning? i hate our different time zones!). good on you.

although i have never asked my pdoc myself, i am fairly sure he would come to my funeral. he shared some poetry he wrote for one of his clients that passed away, which he read at that person's funeral - it was beautiful. he has told me he is scared that if i pass, he wouldn't know where to begin.

i know with my pdoc our connection is genuine and real, and it sounds the same way with you and your T. of course your life has had a deep effect on your T - he would feel the loss. i guess it would come down to individual circumstance as to whether your T attended or not, though - i know my pdoc asks and only goes if the family is ok with it.