Hi greenidentity...I like your username BTW...

Do the two of you talk about this issue?

If so,,describe the communication...

Is there something about you that doesn't fit him...has he expressed this?

If so,,can each of you work on these aspects of yourselves,,create small but achieveable goals to measure your progress and reward each other when success is achieeved...maybe a weekend away?....

Love is a wonderfull feeling and in its purest form it has no expectations. But we do need to make it from one day to the next and there are basic life skills that allow Love to breath in its purest form...

With Care,

Lenny