thank you so much (((((((((((((((((((( everyone )))))))))))))))))))))) i wish i could respond to each post individually but i simply don't have what it takes. i'm sorry i care so much for y'all and appreciate you so much.

i HAVE to confront someone or this is going to eat me up. i listened to it again and it also had his mother accusing my youngest daughter of being jealous of her daughter (she's met my daughter once) for being so involved and she thinks she isn't. this isn't true.

she also said sending invitations out isn't hard and that i was making it difficult...umm, my daughter (the one getting married) must not be keeping them informed of the why's and wherefore's of the situation. i've asked her 4 times for the list of names. she never brought, emailed or anything them to me.

this has hurt me bad. furthermore, i think we called daughter last nite and now i can't get ahold of her. i can't imagine being nasty to my daughter, but we were pretty upset and defensive, as well as triggered with the father situation. now, she's not answering her phone. this is nuts!

thank you again. i'm going to try to make it thru the next hour without crying more.

take good care, friends.