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Old Feb 17, 2009, 06:39 PM
Lenny Lenny is offline
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Originally Posted by ncguynva View Post
Not meaning to steal the thread or create an uproar but i am a bit confused by your statement Lenny.

Without respect, how can you love somebody?
No uproar from me ncguynva...I don't even growl...

Seriously though...questions of any kind are important to understanding and if Green doesn't mind then I will offer my thoughts...

Have you ever Loved an infant? Have you ever Loved someone who couldn't Love you back the way you Loved them? Have you ever Loved someone who was self destructive?

If you have answered Yes to any of the above,,you have Loved in its purest form...It was for the sake of Love...To Love rather than be Loved...

Once an expectation is part of the feeling,,it now has conditions,,some which may very well be appropriate for the health of someone,,,but those conditions now change the nature of the feeling...it is now conditional with limits and parameters...

IMHO.

Lenny
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