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Feb 18, 2009, 04:38 AM
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Member Since: Jan 2009
Location: Ohio
Posts: 27
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It seems that my boyfriend would rather play on his online game Runescape than spend time with me.....we live together, and even though I see him, it's like we never spend any time together...Even when he decides to come lay down with me on the couch to watch t.v., he has to get up and check the game every 10-15 minutes, and if someone messages him or something, it's way more important...after we make love, there's never any cuddling afterwards, he always gets up, and checks the game && the forums.
I ask him if he could lay with me and spend time with me, but he says "No. I can't." and he gets so mad when I get sad about it. I don't know what to do.
I've tried talking to him about it but he always gets mad at me.  He says its the only thing to do, which hurts, because I'm here, you know, and it's like hes saying I'm not worth spending time with.
I just want to cry because for the past 4 months I've felt like I'm competing with a virtual game for my boyfriend. IT's caused alot of stress, and the stress and neglect us just becoming way too much for me.
I love my boyfriend a lot, but I don't know how to get him to understand how lonely and neglected I feel....and advice/suggestions?
Thanks..
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