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Old Feb 18, 2009, 08:13 AM
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My DBT T's had a patient that died (suicide) and they both went to the memorial service (the funeral was out of town) along with those of us from DBT group. It was kind of surreal to be seeing T's in that situation but I think it brought us all closer together. I would talk to your wonderful T about the question. Hugs to you.
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