Shirley, I'm really sorry that filling out those papers upset you so much. I think I'd react the same way. Men have always intimidated women during and after divorces and you and I both have experienced it....I wish I knew what would help your anxiety level now....can you take a brisk walk? Anything to get your mind off of it. Just remember this, the only way he can get your goat, is if you put a rope on it and lead it to him.....love, pat