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I'm not new to the board but if someone would go to this thread, I posted there. Didn't know I had to sign in on each new thread, however, I need some feedback from my post.
The post I responded to had something to do with a husband and wife and her computer and she heard something in her husband's tone that possibly wasn't there.
I didn't know how to post a thread until I checked around and found this page. So....someone, please read my rather long post and reply back. Thank you.
My situation has to do with something my partner said about my sister who's going through dire marital issues. My partner thinks my sister will never find another man (her 3rd. marriage) who would "put up" with her emotions and I don't know how spouse (hers) has managed to put up with her this long. They've almost been married three years this August. He told me, "I'm sorry, but that's the way I feel." That really hurt and I felt numb, shocked and angry. It's like he can't accept her level of emotional, mental and psychological problems. When my sister first met her spouse, he accepted her for who she was. My partner feels it's one thing to say that, another when you're actually living with the person.
I don't know what to say anymore or how to feel.
I told my partner if my sister sends him an e-mail to both of us, okay but if he gets one from my BIL, I don't need to know about it. If I get an e-mail from her, I'm not going to let my partner know.
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