(((Corine))))))) I think ((sannah))) has some of it right , ALso maybe all correct for some. wow I hope this is coming out right
I do know it stems from childhood as she said. It also i think becomes habit forming.
I know i said it all the time when I was young. That was to get what ever was going on to stop.
I still do it now at times. Sometimes to make things end. But sometimes I have done something i may need to say sorry for.
((sannah )))) is right we all can grow

I hope that helped
muffy