Hi...I was married for over 10years...it became abusive after I had my son, but I didn't realize it.

I had a hard time realizing how it was happening ...how it could happen and to this day I question it.

I question the fact that he's still capable. My therapist would say when his behavior would turn "odd" and "things" would happen....WHY would you think he's not capable?

I don't know why ...I just don't know how this could happen. It was hard and it's still hard to understand that I was abused by my once best friend.