I know how you feel - i used to be like that with my mom .. she was always in my business and it drove me nuts. She always had to ask a million questions about everything and i couldn't stand it - i wanted me freedom to. so i started arguing with her about it and not answering and avoiding her or giving short answers so she'd just stop asking .. now im 22 years old and i feel llike my mom wants nothing to do with me anymore. i'm a senior and college and she couldn't even tell you what my major was i don't think. i feel like i shut her out so she shut me out and now there's no way to reverse it. i don't feel like i could talk to my mom or my dad about anything important they just don't seem to care or have time anymore. suck it up and deal with her - don't make the same mistakes i did.