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Originally Posted by tat2doc
Been there, done that. I spent way too much time on the computer and left my ex g/f feeling the same way you feel.
Communication is the key, so have a serious talk with him. Tell him how he makes you feel. If he cares about you, he'll pay attention and try to bring the "magic" back. If not, I guess you know what you'll have to do, for your own sanity.
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Well, I've tried talking to him numerous times about it..&& he tells me that I'm overreacting && then he just gets mad at me. So most of the time, I get too scared to even bring it up..
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Originally Posted by Practice2
I agree .. my boyfriend and i have the same problem .. only he plays call of duty. it drives me freakin nuts - we've had the convo about it probably 15 times. it hasn't done me much good either, i just try to entertain myself and tell him that if there's one night i really do want him to lay with me it shoudln't be too much to ask. doesn't always work but it was the closest to a compromise we could get because me asking him not to play all the time was me "controlling" him. good luck!
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Yea, if he isn't on the computer, he's on the 360, playing call of duty world at war...actually, now since we have the type of t.v. stand you can swivel, he can sit at the computer with runescape up, WHILE playing C.O.D....so yea..ha.
It just really hurts. He can stay up all night and day playing it. He puts off doing homework. Then when he finally crashes to sleep, it's like he's dead, and won't even wake up for classes.
I don't know. It just hurts so much, that I can't even describe the feeling anymore..
I mean, it's not that I get angry about it. I just get really hurt...I mean, God, if I even get started on waiting and wanting to go to sleep at a decent time with him...ha, that will deff put me to tears.
I thought it would change once we got back together following my miscarraige..they told me a large amount of stress was to blame, and I had been feeling so neglected and it was feeling more like unloved as the days went on and I thought he understood that once we got back together but I guess not. I just want my boyfriend to pay attention to me like he does his friends online or the games...