Hi, AG,
I don't know if every dentophobe has had bad experiences. I would assume so, or if not, why would they be phobic?

When I'd take my son to my good dentist, the dentist knew I couldn't stay in the office while he was having cleanings, etc. because I'd just weep and freak out in the waiting room.

So, I'd tell my son (who does not have sensitive teeth like me, thank goodness!) he might feel some discomfort, or pinching feelings, or something, but, it was not anything he couldn't handle. (I told him that also when he had he shots as a little one, and that he had to remain still for shots anyway.) And, he always was ok, because I never said "this won't hurt" or "don't worry" or any of that other BS.

But, I digress. I think dentists actually get VERY little education about phobias (asked several of my dentists about it; even suggested a research study to find out, but they didn't want to collaberate).

So, Dentist X thinks (after I've warned them quite thoroughly about my phobia), well, we'll talk about the Olympics, and that will solve the problem (we being the dentist and the dental asst.). And then when I weep anyway, Dr. X just get pissed.

So, I guess it's just a matter of finding the right one. And, having benzos on hand, and getting as much novocaine and nitrous as possible. In Texas, much to my great regret, they have limits on how much nitrous you can get; however, if you find a skilled and understanding dentist, sometimes they'll give it enough of a bump to help.

Best wishes to you!!
Shar