men watch pornography for various reasons...myself due to my lack of emotional connection with my wife...I cannot be intimate with her, thus I find the pornography gratifying because it requires no intimacy and is self gratifying

but all kidding aside...pornography can do major psychological damage and is a definite marriage killer

having spent 15 plus years and probably close to 10 grand on pornography I can attest to its addictive and destructive nature

Im trying to recover but its not going well...what may sound like harmless fun can lead to varying degrees of destructive behavior