v214k...Well...yes, the webcam could give some idea of their actual age and appearance. I met one fella who had used a much younger photo of himself, and lied about his age. We met for dinner, during which time he actually cried over his surf and turf dinner about his girlfriend who had abandoned their relationship. I said a polite goodnight to him at his car. That evening he began sending me threatening emails, like saying he was cutting up a dead body in his bathtub! He also made it very clear that he was angry that I didn't invite him to my home for sex! Needless to say, that was the only meeting I had with this nut. I should also add...this fella was nearly illiterate. At the time, I dismissed his inability to write a complete sentence or use punctuation. What was I thinking!
Patty