"v214k...Well...yes, the webcam could give some idea of their actual age and appearance. I met one fella who had used a much younger photo of himself, and lied about his age. We met for dinner, during which time he actually cried over his surf and turf dinner about his girlfriend who had abandoned their relationship. I said a polite goodnight to him at his car. That evening he began sending me threatening emails, like saying he was cutting up a dead body in his bathtub! He also made it very clear that he was angry that I didn't invite him to my home for sex! Needless to say, that was the only meeting I had with this nut. I should also add...this fella was nearly illiterate. At the time, I dismissed his inability to write a complete sentence or use punctuation. What was I thinking!
Patty"

wow patty is frightening. I'm just glad you were able to get out of it! So so many guys use fake pics and I will never understand why. I used my real ones because I don't want to shock anyone when they see that its not the girl they were expecting to see! I'd feel like such an idiot. I can't believe that guy was threatening you after. I'm just so so glad you got out of it as quick as you did. What a pyscho.
when i went on my "date" the guy forced me to have sex with him even though i kept telling him i didnt want too. i was so stupid to have gone to his actual house. i thought if i didnt do it he'd kill me though. it was frightening. he got so creepy told me we were going to get married and id quit my job and go back to school and he'd just take care of me and spoil me. and it was just overwhelming to me.
i felt like such a dirty ***** afterwards.... i cant beleive i was so stupid. i will never put myself in a situation like that. when i see those match.com commercials i get sick feelings in my stomach bc of what i went through. im too traumatized to even give it another shot.