appeal to the community is one thing that the person can do Kathy, in papers, or word of mouth, to family, to friends, to any group that might listen and care... when we are in a very limited space to do for ourselves, it is time for the community to come in assistance... we hope our community has the strength and will to understand the underlying factors and would agree that what is good for the individual is in fact best for the overall good of the community.. when one suffers, we all do... sending hope and prayers (((KathyM)))))