So I use to live in Montana and just recently moved back to Alaska and there is a good chance that I am pregent... I took three of those in store tests and they all came back positive so now I have a appointment at a doc just to make sure. I told the "would be father" what I was doing because I thought he sould know what was going on. He said he wasn't angry or upset but he sounded upset... thats understandable though. The thing is I dont want him to throw away his life just becasue of a kid, I know its his, I know he would want to do what is right, but I dont want someone to marry me just because we are having a kid and I know he would want to do that. I know I could spend the rest of my life with him but I dont want it forced in any way.... Im not worried about raising a kid on my own I can do that I have tones of help.... but I would want him to be part of the kids life...