Okay Colleen, you win you "whiny butt"! (So let's just agree to disagree then!). When I was going through my issues I was employed and doing well and in perfect health but when you have issues to work through to get better emotional and mental health it does make you whine (I was accused of being a whiner and making things difficult. Good thing I just listened to people but didn't absorb their opinions!).

Why do you insist on calling yourself a whiner? Do you believe that you don't have any right to speak out about your needs?