Patty, you REALLY have knowledge on this. On one hand this makes me sad because this means that you've been here, you've suffered through this too! On the other hand I am just so happy that you ran into my post! All the things you've said....
I don't know how to thank you for everything, your advice, the time you took to read my long posts. To be honest this is the first time that anyone has ever HEARD, LISTENED to my cry.
All people in this thread that sat down to write to me, to help me have been incredibly valuable. But Patty, especially you....from such a distance and everything you write is so spot on! As if you were an eye in the sky watching the whole thing. I'm just amazed.

To All: Thank you!