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Originally Posted by hangingon
This is the way I feel right now, I didn't want to lie to her about those feelings. Yet, I feel bad for sending it to, for not giving her the same respect in believing what she is telling me.
I know it has to do with my lack of trust, I could have said thanks and left it at that but that wouldn't get me far. I am trying to be as honest with her as possible. I have kept this stuff a secret for way too long .
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HO, you are motivated  to help yourself and work with your t.  that is , imho, the key to getting better. thank you for letting us know that you contacted your t. trust is learned and i believe in time you will attain this goal. just keep on being up front with your t. it will fall into place and you will suddenly realize you are changing...for the better.!!! 
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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