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Originally Posted by Sher8907
that everytime he gets angry, everytime he plays around with me but gets too rough, i start to remember what's happened to me in the past...i remember the molestation, I remember the rape, I remember my mom also getting abused right in front of my eyes. I remember everything. and it takes me back there.
I don't know how to get him to understand....I want him to, but it's like he doesn't care........
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11 years...almost...and I just recently got it. My wife, as a child, had bad things happen to her, she didn't tell me at first, but eventually did, and I was the first person she ever told. All her dissasociation, all her problems, I didn't understand, and all I could think of is why is she treating ME this way...it was all about ME. Now, I know and understand what's up, it's about her and her healing process. Communication was and is the key. If he loves you, he should see it as I finally have and let you get through your healing process the way you need to. I hope you have good T and you are taking care of you.
GL and God Bless!