Your really not alone! So many people have the same issue's with their parents. I too am one. Nothing I do is good enough, no matter how big or small. I'm always in the wrong. I have no advice. I'm grown and moved in with my mother to help her with her bills. She speaks about as if I'm the biggest piece of trash out there. Even though I was the only one who bent over back wards to help her. Just letting you know your not alone. Be safe and don't brake yourself trying to meet your mothers unrealistic expectations.