Fuzzybear - I'm not trying to rain on your parade - but I'm in a hurtin' kind of place right now.

The only unconditional love I'm aware of is the kind our pets bring to our life.

I can only speak for myself...I just seem to be incapable of consistently understanding or maintaining unconditional love in any relationship. Historically I find a way to run amok in all my relationships. A clear pattern of self sabotage prevails and continually I bang my head on the wailing wall of what could have been.

The abandonment issues are many.